He’s definitely happier, we have far fewer arguments, and our sex life feels brand new. Our relationship has gotten so much better since he came out as trans. When I asked if that means he likes women, he clarified that he’s a gay trans man, so he still loves me and wants to remain married. During quarantine, he came out as a trans man.
I have been married to my partner now for seven years. To submit a question for a future column, fill out this form. Ask me anything-literally, anything-and I will gladly Sexplain It. I'm here to answer your most pressing sex questions with thorough, actionable advice that isn't just 'communicate with your partner,' because you know that already.
In doing so, I've learned a thing or two about navigating issues in the bedroom (and a bunch of other places, TBH). Over the years, I've had my fair share of sexual experiences, dating and sleeping with hundreds of people of all genders and orientations. I'm Zachary Zane, a sex writer and ethical manwhore (a fancy way of saying I sleep with a lot of people, and I'm very, very open about it).
